Rob, that sounds like some mighty fine dinning there. Careful or you'll ruin us to anyone else bringing dinner on game night.
For the meats, I'd go for a sliced brisket and Chicken. Ribs are one of my favorites, but can't see being able to play and eat ribs at the same time.
As for a side, the fried Ocra sounds wonderful, as does the beans and rice and coleslaw.
Honestly, though, all of it sounds good, minus the mac and cheese for some unknown reason.
So, I'd be happy with any of those choices.
Thanks buddy.